Commencement Address at Villanova
Posted on Feb 16 2007 | Tagged as: Tip Archives
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“I believe in God, only I spell it Nature.”
–Frank Lloyd Wright
Commencement Address by Villanova
By Anna Quindlen
So here’s what I wanted to tell you today: get a life. Get a real life, not a manic pursuit of the next promotion, the bigger paycheck, the larger house. Do you think you’d care so very much about those things if you blew an aneurysm one afternoon, or found a lump in your breast? Get a life in which you notice the smell of salt water pushing itself on a breeze over Seaside Heights, a life in which you stop and watch how a red-tailed hawk circles over the water gap or the way a baby scowls with concentration when she tries to pick up a Cheerio with her thumb and first finger. Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you.
I found one of my best teachers on the boardwalk at Coney Island maybe 15 years ago. It was December, and I was doing a story about how the homeless survive in the winter months. He and I sat on the edge of the wooden supports, dangling our feet over the side, and he told me about his schedule, panhandling the boulevard when the summer crowds were gone, sleeping in a church when the temperature went below freezing, hiding from the police amidst the Tilt a Wirl and the Cyclone, and some of the other seasonal rides. But he told me that most of the time he stayed on the boardwalk, facing the water, just the way we were sitting now even when it got cold and he had to wear his newspapers after he read them. And I asked him why. Why didn’t he go to one of the shelters? Why didn’t he check himself into the hospital for detox? And he just stared out at the ocean and said, “Look at the view, young lady. Look at the view.”
And everyday, in some little way, I try to do what he said. I try to look at the view. And that is the last thing I have to tell you today, words of wisdom from a man with not a dime in his pocket, no place to go, nowhere to be. Look at the view. You’ll never be disappointed.
Anna Quindlen, from her commencement address at Villanova University, February 8, 1999 Excerpted from the Heron Dance Book of Love and Gratitude
Coaching Call to Action
This week take time out of your schedule to spend some time in Nature. Feel the sensations that come to you. Are you inspired, in awe, connected? How do you feel?
Community Involvement
February 22, 2007
Pounce on a Project II – 2007
Last month our focus was cleaning up our space. Where does all this stuff come from? We all felt more organized and lighter at the end of the session, ready to reward ourselves for a job well done. What project would you like to get on top of and accomplish this month? Come to Pounce on a Project II — 2007. Join Coach Andrea on Thursday, February 22nd, from 9:00 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. Eastern. We will join as a group by phone and declare what you want to accomplish: getting taxes ready for the accountant, cleaning out those boxes in the corner, getting your website finished or make cold calls.
During the morning, the group will gather by phone a few times to check progress and get any support needed to finish with a bang. At noon, the group will celebrate their accomplishments. Who says projects have to be boring and tedious? Bring your lightness and fun and join us for the energization.
To sign up or learn more, call or e-mail Andrea by noon on Wednesday, February 21st. Feel free to share this with friends and co- workers, the more the merrier. (Cost of the program is only the cost of long distance phone calls.)
Ideas and Information
The Heron Dance Book of Love & Gratitude
Living with Love and Gratitude is at the center of the well-lived life.
Artist Roderick MacIver and Writer/Editor Ann O’Shaughnessy celebrate the open heart and the beauty and mystery that surround us with this book of wild nature watercolors, poetry, book and interview excerpts. Included are 48 watercolors by Roderick MacIver and selections from the written works of Helen Keller, Rachel Naomi Remen, Katherine Hepburn, Albert Einstein, Pablo Casals, Joseph Campbell, Dostoevsky, and Henry Miller, among many others. 8.5 x 8.5, 96 Pages. Visit here to read excerpts. Visit here to purchase.
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