Coach Andrea's Coaching Tip of the Week
Focusing your vision, achieving results )
April 14, 2006
Contents In This Issue
  • GET TO THE POINT, PLEASE: THE POWER OF BEING PITHY
  • COACHING CALL TO ACTION
  • COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT
  • IDEAS AND INFORMATION
  • ABOUT ANDREA NOVAKOWSKI
  • PASS IT ON
  • Andrea Novakowski
    Master Certified Coach

    Coaching for Executives, Small
    Business Owners, Professionals
    and Managers





    QUOTE OF THE WEEK

    "Less is more."

    -- Mies van der Rohe


    GET TO THE POINT, PLEASE: THE POWER OF BEING PITHY

    by Michael Angier


    Have you ever tried to listen to someone but found yourself becoming impatient because they were rambling? Ever checked out of a meeting because the speaker was droning on with too much intro, explanation or background?

    Of course you have. We all have.

    Unfortunately, most people who use ten words when two will do are blind to the fact they're losing their listeners. They have no idea how much they detract from the power of their presentation by being verbose. They lose their audience. They lose their ability to influence. Sometimes they even lose their friends.

    On the other hand, people who make their point quickly and effectively are easy to listen to. They use fewer words and have more power. By holding your attention and getting to the point, they're more effective communicators.

    People listen much faster than you speak. Unless you're really holding someone's attention, the tendency is for their thoughts to wander to other things. Here are three things to keep in mind to help you become more succinct:

    1. The Bottom Line
    These days, we expect information to be delivered quickly. Younger people, especially, have short attention spans. We may not like this, but that's the way it is.

    It's up to us to deliver our messages in a succinct, interesting and compelling fashion. We have to GET attention, HOLD attention and make our request or our point QUICKLY. We have to get to the bottom line.

    2. Stop the Pre-Ramble
    The U.S. Constitution begins with the Preamble. It's a one-sentence, masterfully written, powerful introduction to one of the world's most important documents.

    But far too many people practice what I call "pre-ramble". They provide too much detail. And they take way too long introducing what they want to say. In the process, they lose the listener—or don't even grab them in the first place.

    Better to just say what you have to say than spend too long setting up what you have to say. Be brief. Instead of saying, "I'd like to tell you a story," just tell it.

    3. Less is More
    Many people think the more said, the better. Not true. A good writer knows short sentences are more powerful than long ones. Short paragraphs carry more weight. If a word, a sentence or a paragraph doesn't do any work, it shouldn't be there.

    What we need to do is edit what we say as well as edit what we write. Aleksandr Solzhenitzyn said, “Everything you add to the truth subtracts from the truth.” Let us speak less and SAY more.

    Don't get me wrong. I'm not advocating being so curt that we're rude or lose our style. We need sufficient detail to do the job—just not TOO much. Be considerate enough of your audience to convey your message in a way that it can be heard.

    Remember, brief is better.

    Copyright Michael Angier & Success Networks International. Used with Permission. Michael Angier is the founder and president of SuccessNet.org.

    COACHING CALL TO ACTION


    Ask some of your friends for their honest feedback. Ask them if you talk too much, too long or take too much time to get to the point.

    Really listen to what they have to say. If they say you practice any of the above traits, get to work on becoming more succinct. Speak less and say more.

    COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT


    April 20, 2006
    Pounce on a Project IV -- 2006

    Last month a number of people completed projects related to writing, taxes and general space clean up. The ideas and energy were flowing. What project would you like to get on top of and accomplish? Come to Pounce on a Project IV -- 2006. Join Coach Andrea on Thursday, April 20, from 9:00 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. Eastern. We will join as a group by phone and declare what you want to accomplish: getting your key client the proposal you owe them --- early, spring cleaning your office or your desk, preparing for that big presentation, making 50 cold calls or completing employee performance reviews.

    During the morning, the group will gather by phone a few times to check progress and get any support needed to finish with a bang. At noon, the group will celebrate their accomplishments. Who says projects have to be boring and tedious? Bring your lightness and fun and join us for the energization. To sign up or learn more, call or e-mail Andrea by noon on April 19th. Feel free to share this with friends and co-workers, the more the merrier. (Cost of the program is only the cost of long distance phone calls.)

    IDEAS AND INFORMATION


    I had the pleasure of hearing Sam Horn speak last week at ICF-NE's monthly meeting. She is the author of Tongue Fu!® and 13-time Emcee of the Maui Writers Conference. Talk about pithy. She has it down to a science. If you are looking for a new tagline or ways to stand out from the crowd, check out Sam's POP! Process at http://www.samhorn.com/article_POP.html.

    ABOUT ANDREA NOVAKOWSKI


    Coach Andrea's Coaching Tip of the Week is brought to you by Andrea Novakowski, Master Certified Coach who provides Business and Personal Coaching to Executives, Small Business Owners, Professionals and Managers. Andrea is a professional coach who partners with people to set goals and create momentum to produce effective results in their business and/or personal lives.

    Andrea is available for individual coaching. If you are serious about reaching your goals and living with greater fulfillment and satisfaction, consider using a coach. To schedule a COMPLIMENTARY initial consultation, send an e-mail to Andrea at
    andrea@coachandrea.com.

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