This week a former coaching client called me with an
extraordinary story of perseverance and success.
Talking with him certainly made my day and I want to
share some of the principles that have allowed him to
achieve his goals, make money, change careers and
develop extreme personal satisfaction during the past
few months.
A couple of years ago, I worked with a
teacher who had an idea for an internet-based
business. We worked and worked, but it never came
together and when we stopped actively coaching
together after about a year, I felt I had "failed" him in
terms of measurable gains for his business. But we've
stayed in touch, and yesterday he gave me the
incredibile gift of calling to thank me!
As Paul Harvey
says, here's the "rest of the story." It's about
partnerships.
We had always been able to identify
the problems:
** his identified customers weren't
buying
** his lack of webskills made it hard to
build and run the site he needed, and
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because he wasn't making money, he was nervous
about investing, which kept him stuck in a loop of being
underfunded.
Last fall he made several
decisions:
1. He decided to take the
recommendation I had given him and "learn to sell." He
attended some workshops (expensive but worth it),
bought several books and tapes I had been pushing on
him, and got a professional salesperson to mentor him.
He committed to mastering the skills to be an excellent
sales person.
2. He made a slight change in how he defined
his target audience, expanding his market to include
more people who could and - most importantly - DO buy
from him.
3. At a sales conference he met a
web designer and webhost, and they formed an informal
alliance. My client gets the customers, the guy in
Atlanta builds and markets the mini-websites.
4.
He started doing joint-ventures with "the best people I
could find, even though I was nervous because this
was all so new for me." The partnerships have been
phenomenally successful.
The end of the story?
Since he made the commitment to these things last fall,
his business has exploded. He has given notice he will
not return to teaching next year, he has raised his
prices twice and will raise them again in June. He has
more customers than he can handle, and he refers
clients out for a commission on the referral. It's truly
passive, on-going income for him!
The key to this
remarkable story is that he made two essential
decisions:
First, he stopped trying to do it himself.
At first, he was determined to learn the skills (after all,
he's a teacher, a professional learner!) and he was
determined to do it all himself. He got over that.
Second, he decided to take a risk and invest real
money in the project. He had been working on such a
shoe-string (trying not to lose too much!) that he was
starving the project and not giving it a fair chance.
When he invested in learning skills (travel, conferences,
books and tapes) and took the risk of bringing joint
venture partners on-board, things changed.
As the
saying goes, he's "working less and making much, much
more!"
The key was forming partnerships. He
appreciated that he needed to find experts to teach
him. In other cases, he needed to form alliances. And
(this is important) he redefined his audience from a
small group that was not buying to a larger audience
that has been extremely responsive. The partners
helped him do that and helped him meet the needs of
his new customers.
A great story!
So after all this time, why was he thanking me? (Fair
question - when I stopped coaching him, none of this
had happened yet.) His version is that my faith in him,
and the encouragement, advice and friendship I gave
him was "right on, I just wasn't ready to act on it at
the time." He thinks I get some credit for that, and I'm
grateful. In my own view, the credit is his, he earned it!
Where do you need to get expert help? Do you
need to redefine your goal, your audience or perhaps
get a coach to make the kind of progress you want?
Success is almost never a matter of "luck" and it rarely
requires unusual skills or genius. It does, however,
require the usual skills, a great plan, and the
partnership of determined people. Two heads ARE
better than one!
Copyright (c) 2004, all
rights reserved.
Dr. Philip E. Humbert, professional
coach, author and popular speaker can be reached at
www.philiphumbert.com
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This week, follow the teacher's advice: 1.
Stop trying to do it all yourself. Identify where you
need help and ask for it. 2. Where have you been
holding back? Are there skills to be developed? Take a
risk with your business this week to move it forward.
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June 12 & 13, 2004 Novakowski Family
participates
in Relay for Life at Ashland High School
The
Relay for Life is a fun-filled overnight event designed to
celebrate survivorship and raise money for research and
programs of the American Cancer Society. During the
event, teams of people gather at schools, fairgrounds,
or parks and take turns walking or running laps. Each
team tries to keep at least one team member on the
track at all times.
Relay for Life represents the
hope that those lost to cancer will never be forgotten,
that those who face cancer will be supported, and that
one day, cancer will be eliminated.
Please e-
mail or call Andrea if you would like to support the
Novakowskis in their fundraising efforts. If you would
like to participate in a program near you, go to http://www.cancer.org/docroot/gi/gi_1.asp.
June 17, 2004 Pounce on a Project
III
May's Pounce on a Project was so
successful, I've decided to offer it again with "Pounce
on a Project III." Here's what participants
said:
"Pounce on a Project enabled me to fulfill
a long-time goal of mine, while energizing me to
undertake other projects that I had been putting
off." -- Lisa W.
"The simple structure of
commitment and accountability had me easily complete
my project." --Business owner, England
"It
only took me ten minutes to accomplish what I've
been putting off for months!" --Freelance writer,
Boston, MA
Did you know that incompletions
and clutter can drain your energy? In anticipation of a
summer of fun and freedom, are there projects or
spaces you need to 'clean up' to fully move into this
next season? In preparation for our next get
together, consider the following:
** What do
I need to let go? ** How can I simplify? **
What needs to be done to get better organized?
** What needs to be stored for future use?
Join Andrea on Thursday, June 17, from 8:00 a.m.
to 12:30 p.m. Eastern. We will join as a group by
phone and declare what you want to accomplish:
organizing your office, simplifying your filing system,
cleaning under your bed, finishing your website,
planning your pricing strategy for Q3.
During
the morning, the group will gather by phone a few times
to check progress and get any support needed to finish
with a bang. At noon, the group will celebrate their
accomplishments. Who says projects have to be boring
and tedious? Bring your lightness and fun and join us
for energization.
To sign up or learn more, call
or e-mail Andrea by noon on June 15, 2004. Space is
limited. First come, first served. Feel free to share
this with friends and coworkers. (Cost of the program
is only the cost of long distance phone calls.)
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provides Business and Personal Coaching to
Corporations, Businesses, and Individuals. Andrea is a
professional coach who partners with people to set
goals and create momentum to produce effective
results in their business and/or personal lives.
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